My co-counsellor and I were running a workshop on
teenage pregnancy recently at an inner city school in Cape Town. The focus of my discussion during our workshop was mainly
on healthy and unhealthy relationships.
Of the 60 participants, female grade ten learners, almost a third
requested counselling after this topic discussion. I was taken by surprise when it
emerged that the majority of these girls presented problems with teen dating
violence. Most of them were victims of violence, being abused within the
context of dating. Some others admitted to perpetrating abuse in their dating
relationships. This was an unsettling discovery and I was prompted to
further investigate date related abuse among teens.
Teen dating violence (TDV) is a serious and potentially
fatal form of relationship violence in adolescence. The data shows very high
incidence and prevalence of exposure to TDV among adolescents and teens, but it
has been largely overlooked as an issue that can have serious and potentially
fatal consequences. Adolescents have long been overlooked as a population that
suffers from relationship abuse
(http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/TeenDatingViolence2012-a.pdf).
Research literature on this age-group has been scarce and confusion remains in
healthcare communities about the definition, implications and effective
intervention methods.
The research literature does not provide a uniform
definition on TDV, and definitions vary in comprehensiveness. The restrictive
definition only includes ‘physical force or threats of force against a current
or former intimate partner’, while a broader definition includes ‘a continuum
of controlling or dominating acts that cause some degree of harm’ (Wekerle and
Wolfe, 1999). It includes most commonly physical abuse,
psychological/emotional/verbal abuse, and sexual abuse within the context of
dating or courtship.
Bearing in mind that only 35% of youths between the ages of
13 -17 report crimes against themselves, the statistics tell a disturbing story
(Close, 2005):
·
Almost 30% of teens age 14 – 17 report that
they, or someone they know, has experienced dating violence;
·
1 in 5 female high school students report being
abused by a boyfriend;
·
33% of teenage girls report having experienced
physical violence by a dating partner;
·
38% of date rape victims are between 14 and 17
years old;
·
Between 1993 and 1999, 22% of all homicides
against females ages 16 to 19 were committed by an intimate partner;
·
The potential threat for violent behavior
appears to escalate as the relationship becomes more serious
Many research studies have highlighted the serious
consequences of dating violence (Joyce, 2004). Apart from physical injuries and
fatalities, studies have shown a range of mental health issues arising from TDV:
post-traumatic stress, lower self-esteem, decline in school achievement, and
increases in eating disordersand substance use. Studies also revealed a
prevalence of negative mood and behaviour following the abuse, and that these
effects tend to be enduring over time.
Despite the alarming statistics TDV attract little national
attention and although it causes significant damages, communities, authorities,
schools, parents and victims continue to deny the seriousness of the problem.
This minimization of the deleterious effects of TDV stresses the urgency for
serious responses to the problem. It is a call for both intervention program
initiatives and legal reforms.
In the United States some organisations have started to
address the challenge of TDV by implementing programs that mainly focuses on prevention and education, or on counseling and intervention. Prevention and education programs seek
to reduce TDV and to promote healthy relationships by teaching conflict
handling, critical thinking and communication skills.They explore for example
power and control, gender stereotypes, gender based violence and nonviolent
ways to deal with disappointment and anger. Counselling
and intervention programs intervene directly on teens’ lives and focus on
support structures, behavioural changes and to enhance teens’ capacity to solve
problems without abusing others (Foshee et al., 2004).
Unfortunately legal options available to teens are limited
as they do not possess the same legal status, and therefore rights, as adults
(Offenhauser&Buchalter, 2011). Furthermore, teens generally do not have the
same resource options that are available to adult victims of violence, for
example access to domestic violence shelters. In 2007, in response to a dating
violence fatality, the Lindsay Ann Burke Act was passed and Rhode Island, US,
became the first state to require that seventh to twelfth grade learners be
educated about violence in dating relationships.
A better understanding of the risk factors and predictors of
TDV can facilitate early intervention and better prevention programs. More
research is however necessary on effective screening and intervention
methods.Due to the damaging and ongoing negative impact that TDV has on the psychological
health of adolescents, as well as being potentially lethal, pressure should be
sustained for statutory reforms to ensure minors’ expanded access to the
justice system. Awareness-raising programs in schools and communitiescould also
make a contribution.
References
Close, S.M. (2005).Dating Violence Prevention in Middle School
and High School Youth.Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Nursing,
18, 2–9.
Foshee, V.A., Bauman K.E.,
Ennett, S.T., Linder, G.F., Benefield, T., and Suchindran, C.(2004). Assessing the Long-Term Effects of the Safe
Dates Program and Booster in Preventing and Reducing Adolescent Dating Violence
Victimization and Perpetration.American Journal of Public Health, 94 (4),
619–24.
Joyce, E. (2004). Teen Dating Violence: Facing the Epidemic.
Networks, 37(3), 1-9.
Offenhauser, P., Buchalter, A.
(2011). Teen Dating Violence: A
Literature Review and Annotated Bibliography. A report prepared by the
Federal Research Division, Library of Congress, Washington, D.C., 235368.
Werkerle, C., & Wolfe, D.
(1999).Dating violence in
mid-adolescence: theory, significance, and emerging prevention initiatives.Clinical
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